Lady who researched about Apostle Selman and Sandra shares what she found out
A Nigerian lady has captured attention online after sharing what she described as her personal findings on Apostle Joshua Selman and Lady Sandra Areh amid long-standing relationship rumours.
The lady, identified as Tanko Lami, took to Facebook in a detailed post, explaining that curiosity pushed her to research both individuals, especially amid repeated speculations linked to Sandra’s birthday celebrations and her close association with Selman’s ministry.
Background of the Growing Speculation
Speculation around Apostle Joshua Selman and Lady Sandra Areh intensified after events surrounding Sandra’s birthday, which often attract massive attention online.
Tanko said her concern was not driven by gossip but by what she observed as Sandra’s deep immersion in Selman’s ministry over the years, with little independent visibility outside it.
Findings From University Days and Ministry Growth
According to Tanko, her research showed that Selman and Sandra go back many years.
She stated that they reportedly became close during their university days and worked together in building the ministry from its early stages.
She wrote:
“…So here’s what I found out:
Lady Chinelo Areh, no be today e start with AJS, they said since school days, she’s one of the earliest support, in fact, a part of his ministry. Since university days ooh.
They grew the ministry together, while this is awesome and it is 100% applaudible, I tried to find her online and see the testimonies of people about her, everything, no not everything 80% of what you’ll see about Sandra has to do with AJS or Koinonia,
It’s how immersed she is in the ministry.
From day one, the evidential story is that AJS has long cleared the air that he wants to be celibate or no marriage because that is his consecration to his calling, oh that is Biblical and great.
But when you go to Sandra’s point, she said “I’m waiting on the Lord” Toh! That is great too… but if you watch the video where she said that, it’s not the same energy AJS said his, that she said hers too.
Should it be the same energy? Nope! No one expects it to be, but it’s not the same response.
One person has cancelled marriage, while the other wants to get married and still single…. And this is where everyone is concerned for her.
Is waiting on God necessary? Yes ooh, it’s a requirement. But what? As we wait, we prepare Abi ? Howww in all your preparations in this era, public perception cannot be ruled out of it.
I get it, some “concerned” on these are negative projections, narratives and conclusions, but they are still valid concerns and questions raised.
I even went on YouTube, Sandra has no independent presence and activities of her own, (maybe I didn’t see well, I’m open to corrections) everything I saw is around Koinonia, AJS or related ministry as a woman of God, even on google. I think her only personal/indepent digital asset is her IG account which activities are built around all I’ve mentioned.
Let’s not forget, yearly, she trends on her birthday because of who ? AJS.
Sisterly love, because they are now like family, but what is the problem?
Infact, her other name is SELWOMAN, which she answers since university days, you know what SELWOMAN means? Good.
If you are a public figure, people will ask questions and to some level, they are entitled to accountability… because you are representing a people, it’s okay if they come out to clarify their relationship again.
Before you’ll hear young people saying “ah, even AJS has been with Sandra for years, she built with him but still didn’t marry her” you’ll be surprised how young people will use whatever narrative they refused to address to build a lifestyle around it.., you don’t think it is possible?
Okay ooh let’s address the elephant in the room.
The danger of her clinging or building her name around AJS And Koinonia is that it MAY scare potential suitors away, especially because they don’t always clarify their relationship. Last they did was many years ago.
And personally, I wish she will build a digital image and voice of her own outside the AJS wave, cause now, the narrative isn’t good and the footages aren’t helping either.
I think people are more worried about her, being the woman in the picture more than they are judging the situation.
Tomorrow, AJS can decide to marry and if it isn’t her, Omoh! E no go fresh.
And if she is already married but choosing to leave her marriage out of the public knowledge, great! But there is also a way to go about it.
You keep giving the publuc couple goals images, couple goals gestures, couple goals speeches and when they ask, whatsup? Una dey do like it’s a sin to ask.
Omoh I don dey talk too much, almost losing my line of thoughts.
In the end, everyone will be fine…”
See below;
Screenshot
