“He abandoned me when I was 5”- Lady goes viral over response to her father’s wife to get tested for kidney transplant
A Nigerian lady’s response to her father’s wife to get tested for kidney transplant has sparked buzz online.
The lady, @thekingdaughtta on the microblogging platform, X (formerly Twitter), shared that her father abandoned her at age 5 to start a new family.
Details Of The Tweet
In her viral tweet, the lady shared how she struggled with abandonment, eventually moved on, and built a life without her father.
Recently, her father’s wife reached out, revealing he’s in need of a kidney transplant and hinted she might be a match.
According to @thekingdaughtta, her father’s family aren’t compatible matches and have bombarded her with messages, labelling her selfish and heartless.
The X user shared that her mother urged her to reconsider, worried she would be haunted by guilt if he passes away, but she doesn’t feel guilty.
Read Tweet Below…..
My dad abandoned me and my mum when I was five. He left to start a new family and had little to no contact with me growing up. He never asked of me nor paid any bills. I struggled with feelings of abandonment for many years, but I eventually moved on and built a life without him.
Recently, I got a call from his wife telling me my father is very sick and needs a kidney transplant. She told me that I might be the best match and begged me to get tested.
Apparently his own family are not compatible. I told her NO, I don’t owe him anything after the way he treated me. He made his choices when he abandoned I and my mom, and I feel no obligation to put myself through a major surgery for someone who is essentially a stranger to me.
Since then I’ve been bombarded with messages from his side of his family, calling me selfish and heartless. They said I’m letting him die out of spite and that I need to be the bigger person.
Even my mom think I should consider it, not for him, but to avoid carrying guilt if he passes away. I don’t feel guilty, I feel he is reaping what he sowed, but part me wonders if I’m being too harsh.
Being contacted at 28 to give an absent father my kidney isn’t what I bargained for. Should I reconsider?.
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