Man calls out lady for buying food and eating it alone on first date
A young Nigerian man shares his frustration over an awkward first date experience with a lady who ordered herself food, neglecting him.
In an anonymous post to popular X influencer @wizarab10, he recounted how the lady’s actions left him feeling overlooked.
The man revealed that the woman paid for her transportation and clothing expenses for the outing, which he appreciated. However, things took a surprising turn when she ordered food only for herself during the date.
“I went on a date with a girl, our very first date and she paid for her clothings and transport. When we got there, we spoke for over an hour and she was listening though. Then, she suddenly called the waiter and ordered meat pie and ice cream for herself and she was eating and listening to me. Isn’t that callous? She didn’t even ask me whether I’m hungry, she just ate, listened and replied me,” he wrote.
He concluded the post by asking followers for advice on whether he should continue pursuing the relationship, humorously adding, “Should I fling?”
The post has since generated a wave of mixed feelings, particularly from many who ridiculed the guy for being unserious.
A social media user @Mickyy_Beast wrote, “I no really understand what this thing is complaining about? She clothed herself like a responsible adult should and then ordered what she wanted to eat and also listened to the rubbish you were saying. Please tell us wetin the problem be, she for order for you?”
Another user @topecole added, “Why’re you complaining for. She bought clothes and paid for her transport. If she didn’t now, you’ll start saying Nigerian girls this and that one. There is nothing you won’t say under the sun . You’re a nincompoop.”
