“Baddies are the one winning, good girls are losing” – Lady sparks online debate
A young Nigerian lady has sparked a stir on social media after boldly stating that the baddies are the ones thriving in life, while the “good girls” are falling behind contrary to what parents have preached since childhood.
In a viral video shared by @Teniola on X (formerly Twitter), she highlighted that girls who “opened their eyes early” have not only survived challenges but are excelling.
In her words, she said:
“It’s high time we tell ourselves the truth, the baddies are winning. Look at those girls who were sharp and ambitious from a young age; their lives didn’t get destroyed. They’re thriving, traveling to different countries, and truly making moves.”
Reflecting on the saying, “good girls don’t get paid,” she expressed surprise that it isn’t emphasized enough.
She added that when comparing ambitious women with those who play it safe, the difference becomes obvious.
The baddies are now leading, traveling abroad, and achieving success even during festive seasons like Christmas when they continue to shine.
Her words quickly sparked reactions online. A commentator wrote, “Gone are those days when good girls pay; now it’s a different ball game.”
Another said, “Thank God I no follow una do good girl; I can’t count my achievements.” Others praised her honesty, noting that her statement resonates with the realities of
Watch video below…
Let’s tell ourselves the truth, the baddies are wining, you see those girls that open their eyes when they’re small, their life no later sp0il ooo, that good girl no dey pay is real” — Lady pic.twitter.com/YnDeojrHDY
— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) December 18, 2025
