Woman sparks debate as she advises single ladies over 30 to focus on having children, gives reasons
A Nigerian woman has advised single ladies aged 30 and above to prioritize having children rather than focusing on marriage.
In a video shared on her TikTok page, she urged single women over 30 to let go of societal pressures and consider motherhood as their next step.
Woman advises single women over 30 to prioritize having children.
In her message, she stated, “If you’re a lady in your 30s, and you haven’t gotten married, just forget about marriage, go and give birth to a child.”
She elaborated, explaining that many women are influenced by societal standards and, when those expectations aren’t met, they become hesitant to marry.
The woman made several other points about why it’s important for women to have children sooner rather than later.
As the video gained traction online, concerned individuals flooded the comment section to voice their opinions.
See some reactions below:
exp ventures: “all this online advisers, a lady at 30 is still very young.”
hopemanfx: “I met a girl 33yrs. I begged her for pregnancy before marriage.. she refused.. I even set aside 3m for marriage she still refused. what are ur view???.”
Maxwell: “Many married people wish they are still single. You will definitely do better in life being single than getting married. stop over hyping marriage ok.”
Apostle Ikechukwu: “I met a 42yr old lady my uncle of 54 wants to marry she said my fresh uncle from America is too old for her lol.”
LORDKEMET .GOD.: “I talk to one about relationship she’s 34 she say she go think about it I laugh .”
China: “I have a friend but she’s (late)now that is 36 years that was married and left the marriage because of his husband’s family no child at her age.once you are up to 30 try and have a is not a bad thing.”
IAmTollyLondon: “Some women have pcos which is a struggle to get pregnant also. And for a man to stay with such a situation is hard.”
Kunlejohnson: “I use to tell them, its pardonable if u dont marry but not pardonable if u are childless…Wen old age comes, u’ll knw d importance of children.”
xy-mascot.: “Forget about love, just try get baby. You yourself, you love man? no be money and standard you dey find? everybody should forget abt love.”
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